Loneliness viewed

Here are three items addressing solitude and loneliness. Popular treatments often conflate the two, viewing the phenomenon of loneliness as rooted in culpability and mental conditioning, assuming that society is benign and nourishing,and that regular doses of society are required for balance. Partly true for most, probably overrated for others.

“Social Nourishment + Restorative Solitude = Human Thriving” from Psychology Today blog.
URL: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-athletes-way/201912/social-nourishment-restorative-solitude-human-thriving

The Guardian offers “Top 10 Books About Loneliness” mixing literature by women and books on the psychology of loneliness. “A historian of emotion picks the best books about a modern malady.”

  1. Robinson Crusoe by Daniel Defoe (1719)
  2. Frankenstein by Mary Shelley (1818)
  3. The Well of Loneliness by Radclyffe Hall (1928)
  4. A Writer’s Diary by Virginia Woolf (1953)
  5. The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath (first published in 1963 under the pseudonym Victoria Lucas)
  6. Journal of a Solitude by May Sarton (1973)
  7. Human Nature and the Need for Social Connection by John T Cacioppo and William Patrick (2009)
  8. The Lonely City by Olivia Laing (2016)
  9. Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman (2017)
  10. Lost Connections: Uncovering the Real Causes of Depression and the Unexpected Solutions by Johann Hari (2018)

URL: https://www.theguardian.com/books/2019/dec/25/top-10-books-about-loneliness

“How to Avoid the Traps that Produce Loneliness and Isolation” in the Washington Post.
URL: https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2020/01/02/how-avoid-traps-that-produce-loneliness-isolation/

Agostini, New Mexico cave hermit

Smithsonian magazine offers an article titled “The Inspiring Monk Who Lived in a New Mexico Cave,” about Giovanni Maria de Agostini, “a peripatetic Italian monk who was banished from Brazil, reached northern New Mexico on foot in 1863.” The monk spent the rest of his New Mexico life in a mountain that came to be known as Hermit Peak. The hermit monk still attracts members of the Societyof the Hermit, local history buffs, the article describing one family of enthusiasts who make an annual pilgrimage to the mountain and cave.

URL: https://www.smithsonianmag.com/arts-culture/inspiring-monk-lived-new-mexico-cave-180973501/

Millennials as modern hermits?

A clever, informed, and useful piece from Quartzy is titled “Why millennials never want to leave their apartment anymore.” Right up to date as far as the effects of work, technology, money, and post-capitalist society. A related article in the New York Times is titled “Why You Should Find Time to Be Alone With Yourself,” and Japan Today has a similar review of the topic of “living alone.”

URL: https://qz.com/quartzy/1748191/how-millennials-became-a-generation-of-homebodies/; https://www.nytimes.com/2019/10/28/smarter-living/the-benefits-of-being-alone.html; https://japantoday.com/category/features/kuchikomi/living-alone-becoming-a-way-of-life-for-many-but-that%27s-not-necessarily-for-worse